For couples, it is recommended that you work with two of us - Joseph Allen, my male colleague and me; together as this creates a stronger container for your process. We collectively bring over 40 years of in-depth ranges of experiences and trainings in the field of sexuality. We can provide demonstrations and bodywork opportunities that are especially useful for couples, with the polarities of gender roles and historical ruptures playing out between you. The two of us hold you both effectively, alongside both of you simultaneously.
These six- or twelve-session programmes create a container to hold the process
When somatic openings become active, past memories of being sad, lonely, in grief, in outrage, disbelief, in pain, etc, are very likely to surface in this process. I will be present to support your integration, and we will do our best to arrange a more frequent session schedule to guide you through these repair processes.
Successfully coming through ruptures of confidence offers tremendous opportunities for growth and confidence in navigating these in the rest of your life, breaking the patterns of things going wrong without ways to repair them.
This is especially relevant for couples in this process, and for anyone who might benefit from working through the loneliness of not being met, acknowledged, and understood in relationships.
These programmes are not refundable if you decide not to complete the process.
If you are unsure and wish to proceed gradually, you are welcome to book one session at a time. If you prefer to book one-off sessions before committing to a programme:-
The pay-as-you-go price for couples is:
* £270 for 90-minute sessions arranged via the 90-minute session link
* £180 for 60-minute sessions arranged via the 60-minute session link
Both of these use Stripe to process your payment.
Cancellations & Refund Policy - online sessions
Cancellations and rearrangements are possible within a programme, but there are no refunds once you have booked and paid.
In-between session time support - online sessions & retreats
Communications relating to home practice guidance and support are via email. For quick messages, WhatsApp messages are the most direct if you have any last-minute changes to timings or plans.
Aftercare - online sessions & retreats
It is your responsibility to arrange your aftercare following a retreat by booking your next online sessions to support your integration.
In-person retreats
The daily rate is by arrangement and depends on the venue. Please enquire about this investment for your relationship.
Each day, we work together for approximately six hours, with a one-and-a-half-hour lunch break.
Accommodation
Accommodation is not included. Refreshments and snacks are provided.
Locations are in Devon or London and are part of an online 6- or 12-session program that provides preparation and aftercare.
They are held in quality private locations in harmonious surroundings.
These bespoke retreats are designed for individuals or couples seeking truly life-changing opportunities to see yourself from radically new perspectives, with the confidence to experience and experiment with new ways of being, unhampered by your existing inhibitions and by strategies that no longer work.
Cancellations and refund policy - In-person retreats
After booking the retreat dates, full payment is required to secure the booking; it is non-refundable, as I will have booked my time, travel, and our practice space.
